How chemotherapy and hair loss affect my confidence, self-esteem
Identifying the issue is the first step in problem-solving
Having chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD) makes us patients more susceptible to lung infections. These infections can creep up on us quickly and progress to a severe condition in just a few days. This was the case for me two summers ago.
During my hospital stay, I was given six treatments of chemotherapy. The nurse told me I was being given it because I had skin cancer removed. The doctor then clarified that the treatment aimed to reduce the inflammation. The doctor’s explanation was quite a relief as I knew they were investigating a spot on my lung.
After treatment, when I wanted to brush my hair, I wasn’t initially alarmed by the handful of hair that was left in my brush. At the time, I hadn’t brushed my hair for several days. But once I returned home, the hair kept falling out. I didn’t lose all of it, and most of it grew back. I didn’t think much more about it.
In the grand scheme of things, hair isn’t that important to me. I actually enjoyed the extraordinarily little amount of hair that was left under my arms and on my legs. I dealt well with all of the hair depletion — except my eyebrows. Eyebrows frame a person’s eyes and add a lot of individuality to the face.
I still struggle to fill in the blank spots with an eyebrow pencil. Some days, I think I’ve made them look like my natural eyebrows, while on other days, not so much.
I write about this because our appearance has a lot of influence on our self-esteem. In an article published by the The Peak Counseling Group, I learned that people who struggle with self-esteem are prone to negativity. Further reading supports the idea that self-esteem is related to mental health.
I don’t want to look into the mirror to brush my teeth, wash my face, or comb my hair. A few days ago, I realized this was holding me back from starting the day. Identifying the problem is the first step in the scientific method of problem-solving.
The problem is that I try not to let having so few hairs in my eyebrows bother me, but it does bother me — a lot. Admitting this to a friend and writing about it has helped me feel better about this issue. I will try to become more proficient in filling in the blank spots.
This problem might be a reason to treat myself to a day at the beauty salon to learn from the experts. We need to take care of ourselves to do and be our best.
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