Getting better with COPD means doing the work the way our ancestors did

COPD may not have a cure, but you can move toward better days

Written by Caroline Gainer |

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Getting better with chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD) isn’t a passive hope. It’s a practice of daily choosing, and sometimes it feels like the choosing is the hardest part.

No one hands you a syllabus when you’re diagnosed. There’s no neat checklist taped to the refrigerator that says, “Do these things, and you’ll breathe easier.” Instead, you learn the way our grandparents learned to farm: by showing up, by paying attention, by listening to the land of your own body.

The experts will tell you that COPD has no cure, but it does have a direction. You can move toward better days. You can strengthen the muscles that help you breathe, conserve the energy you have, and learn the rhythms of your own lungs. Pulmonary rehabilitation — that structured mix of movement, breathing practice, and education — is one of the most powerful tools we have. It’s the modern version of barn‑raising: you show up, and the work lifts you.

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But the real work happens at home, in the quiet hours. It’s in the way you plan your day so you’re not doing laundry, grocery shopping, and an appointment all in one go. The American Lung Association calls it the “5 P’s”: pace, plan, position, prioritize, and practice pursed‑lip breathing. Our ancestors didn’t have that language, but they lived it. They knew you don’t plow the whole field in one afternoon. You break the work into rows.

Getting better also means learning to eat in a way that supports your lungs, which is to eat smaller meals more often so your diaphragm has room to move. Fresh fruits, vegetables, whole grains, fish: the simple foods that once filled our family tables now turn out to be lung‑protective, too. There’s something comforting about that continuity.

And then there’s the air itself, the invisible partner in your recovery. Staying indoors on poor‑air‑quality days, avoiding smoke and fumes, using an air filter if you need one. It’s not weakness to protect yourself; it’s stewardship. The same way our people once watched the sky for storms, you learn to watch the air for what might trouble your breathing.

Medication is part of the work, too, and not just taking it, but taking it correctly. Inhalers are finicky little things, and even the experts say most people use them wrong at first. There’s no shame in asking your provider to watch you use it again. Getting better means becoming a student of your own tools.

And then there’s the emotional labor, which is the part no one warns you about. COPD can bring fear, anxiety, even depression. The National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute reminds us that talking to a counselor or joining a support group can help. That’s not a sign of failing. It’s a sign of tending to the whole field, not just the rows that show.

Getting better with COPD is not a single act. It’s a series of small, stubborn choices: to move, to rest, to breathe with intention, to avoid what harms you, to ask for help, to keep learning. It’s the kind of work our ancestors would recognize: steady, humble, hopeful.

And like them, you don’t do it alone. You do it with your care team, your family, your community, and the quiet voice inside you that says, “I want better days.”

That voice is worth listening to.


Note: COPD News Today is strictly a news and information website about the disease. It does not provide medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. This content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your physician or other qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website. The opinions expressed in this column are not those of COPD News Today or its parent company, Bionews, and are intended to spark discussion about issues about chronic obstructive pulmonary disease.

Ladinee McWilliams avatar

Ladinee McWilliams

This sounds like good 👍 advice and it’s appreciated.

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Douglas smith avatar

Douglas smith

Do pursed lip breathing but not sure it makes a big difference

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MS LOLA CLINTON avatar

MS LOLA CLINTON

Thanks for your lovely and inspiring article I hope the words of encouragement spread far and wide across the community of people diagnosed with COPD.

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Sandy Smith avatar

Sandy Smith

Thanks for this, i needed a push away from my deapair (and fear)

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Anthony Mcgill avatar

Anthony Mcgill

Thank you.Inspirational .xxx

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Patrick B. Hunt avatar

Patrick B. Hunt

It's good to read such upbeat and helpful, encouraging information about this discouraging deslease. I was told, rather casually, a few years back that I had COPD too, and after losing a friend to it. Art had suffered for 5 or 6 years, and finally succumed.
At 89 I'll be reading more, praying more, but more hopefully now.

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Marieta Diane Golding avatar

Marieta Diane Golding

This is one of the best articles ever. That or it resonates with me right now as a 14 year COPD person or does research of the condition. The 5 P's how good is that as a reminder! Thank you.

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Dominick avatar

Dominick

I just wanted to say thank you for your encouragement and God for you. I was diagnosed with COPD in 2018 at age 41. Anyway it's been a trip for sure since then. Thanks again and have a wonderful day.

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Nicholas Monks avatar

Nicholas Monks

Thank you Caroline for your positive, useful and hopeful articles. I’ve been reading them for a few years now and it’s clear that you know what you’re talking about.

Big love and hugs 🤗
Nicky ✨✨

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David Brown avatar

David Brown

I started off in about 2001 with the cough etc, and eventually was diagnosed officially in 2005. First off the attacks anda few hospital visits including overnights. Then I heard of an ancient control (there is no cure yet) which I took for many years (?9 - 12) before my GP decided to clean out my gut of all protection . End of comfort formany years until I could get some form of control. The control I use is daily one tablespoon each of lemon juice, honey and apple cider vinigar plus hot water. The original recipe included cinnamon and a bit more of lemon and vinegar. Like eveyone I strongly recom end exercise - perhaps 30 minutes walk daily or (like me), join a gym.

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Claire avatar

Claire

Great words of inspiration. Thank you.

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David Sylvester avatar

David Sylvester

Inspirational!! Step at a time. Have a plan. .."I think I can-I think I can". I live a healthy active life by following a plan like you speak of. Thanks Caroline--As usual--Great article!!

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Deborah Allen avatar

Deborah Allen

I have never commented but I always read your posts. You are encouraging, insightful, and inspiring. Thank you!

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Mr Denis McLeod avatar

Mr Denis McLeod

Just to let you know,there is a procedure called Rheox.Which was trialled in England.After being accepted & undergoing treatment,all the COPD symptoms have gone. There is hope out there.

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Zee Coetzee avatar

Zee Coetzee

What a positive piece to read on a day that I feel like giving up. Thank you for that. It is all so true but not always easy to take control again and push on. Best wishes grom South Africa.

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Joe Ruffin avatar

Joe Ruffin

Would working in a maintenance shop with chemicals and moderate dust be a bad idea?

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Tom Trueb avatar

Tom Trueb

Appreciate the information.

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